Do you need a perspective change?

At certain times of the year in a school, people are very stressed, very busy and very stressed. I am sure it is like that in many jobs. There are periods of time when the frantic pace makes it difficult to breathe. And then there are other times when the pace is as slow as molasses on a cold winter day. During the frantic times, how do you act and react to those people around you? Do you still practice politeness or are you a "get outta my way or else" kind of person? What makes people feel they have the right to be rude just because they are incredibly stressed and busy? What is the difference between those who check their politeness at the door during the stressful times and those who act and react with the same level of politeness whether they are busy, stressed or not. I believe it is a matter of perspective. When our perspective is turned within ourselves, we are only aware of ourselves. We are not aware of anyone else, let alone what kind of day someone else may be having. When we lift our heads and actually look at people, our perspective changes. It turns outward. We become aware of others, how they may be feeling, what kind of day they may be having, and their general well being. By becoming more aware of those around us, we may be less likely to act and react according to how we alone may be feeling. Our problems may not seem so bad and definitely not original when we start taking others into consideration. So, the next time you are feeling overwhelmed and life is as frantic as driving on the Audubon, look up! Change your perspective. I am sure you will notice others on the same road, feeling the same way. Practice a kind deed, say a kind word, and you will both be feeling less stressed in no time.